About Katybeth

hopeful writer | says yes often | planner, doer, and finisher |  filling my life with wit and humor | wobbly speller | lover of new technology | mom to a terrific teen | wondering, What Next?

Hi,

I’m Katybeth welcome to My Odd Family.

Names, characters, places and incidents written about on My Odd Family are real and are not a product of my imagination. Any resemblance to actual events, locales or persons, living or dead, is entirely purposeful. However, in the immortal words of my grandmother, the truth should never get in the way of a good story.

My son’s name is Cole, and our family pups are Rascal, Scooby and Skippy.  My dearly departed husband is Joe.  Joe died on June 2, 2009 of a heart attack. Who could have predicted that my change of life would come in the form of the death of my husband?

I did not vote for change and it often leaves me wondering, what now and what next.

Some of  My Odd Family members,  are raising teens, while others have college-age kids or preschoolers. We married our spouses for better or worse, but did not agree to have them as Facebook friends or follow them on Twitter. Some are ending marriages and others are finding love for the first time.   Do we buy a farm or is city life where we would rather stay? Retire? Heck, many of us are just rejoining the work force with new careers.

The big question for all of us these days seems to be, What Next?

My hope is you will stick around and be apart of My Odd Family as we use our collective wit and wisdom to bring life changes, big or small, down to a level where we can laugh out loud about them, and help each other discover what IS next.

Odd loves company. We will leave the light on for you.

Odds and Ends about Me:

I was born in Roswell, New Mexico. I escaped.

I’m an only child, raising an only child.

I talk to my dearly departed husband more often now than when he was alive. He is a better listener. Sometimes.

One of my goals is to share grief in the style of Erma Bombeck.

I love to eat leftover cake in the bathtub.

My beverage of choice is Coke in little bottles. Starbucks would be a close runner-up.

I’m a professional pet spoiler (PPS) and love running two business, Camp Run-A-Pup and Deer Antlers for Pups.

I am passionate about Waldorf education. We enrolled Cole in a parent/child class when he was 18 months old and never looked back. He had the same teacher for eight years of grade school and is now attending the Waldorf High School as a freshman.

When I call Cole for meals, he often answers, “Really?” Cooking is not my thing.  I love computers, gadgets, cameras, and take-out menus.

I saw Hulk Hogan naked when he wrestled live for KPLR-TV in St. Louis. Years later, I had my picture taken with him. He was wearing clothes that time.

I don’t parent for an audience. Cole and I sometimes text or check Facebook at the dinner table or blow up Twinkies.  I lost the coat war but won the clean room battle.

I co-own a show dog with my mother, Ch. Soquel’s Last Souvenire, or as we call her, Trinket, a show-stopping Doberman.

Along with Winnie the Pooh, my spelling is wobbly and I believe, “Nobody can be uncheered with a balloon.”

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Aunt Jillie May 6, 2009 at 11:40 pm

I was in the delivery room when this child was born or I might not believe she is one of us! She still sounds sane most of the time

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Katybeth Jensen May 6, 2009 at 11:50 pm

DA (Dear Aunt) , have you not forgotten, I am not the sane one, I am the NICE one!!

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Judi Murphy May 7, 2009 at 3:42 pm

I am actually thrilled that I married into this family. I love all of you very much. I am going to be visiting Aunt Jill next week. Judi

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Katybeth Jensen February 9, 2011 at 1:49 pm

We love you more. . .

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Marcie, Katybeth's Mother May 7, 2009 at 6:31 pm

Truly, I don’t think I am even a member of this odd family. I truly believe I was either adopted or snatched when I was a tiny kid.
This blog is for people who think THEIR family is strange. Hang in with us and after several months, your family will look very normal! Now Judi is truly the oddest, marrying into this family and still saying she’s thrilled!
Anyway, hang on, your in for a very wild and odd ride.
Marcie

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Katybeth Jensen May 7, 2009 at 11:39 pm

DM (Dear Mom),
We took a vote–you belong.

ox DD (Dear Daughter)

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Aunt Jillie May 7, 2009 at 7:18 pm

And I’m delighted!

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Becky Blanton March 24, 2010 at 1:36 am

Wow. I always wanted to BE from Roswell, NM or move there so I could talk about aliens without sounding weird; or at least blame my weirdness on the water there. My Canon and camera bag are attached to me at the hip, but I do like to sew and cook, mostly things like camping gear bags and carbohydrates or seared meat since I am a ravenous carnivore. I think kids should cry when they lose and dance when they win. Whoever came up with this idea that having fun couldn’t include failing grew up on some other planet or an alternative dimension! I found your blog through a link on Triiiibes.com. I’m sorry about your husband Joe dying, but happy that you had the time you did with him. I’ve never had even one day of that kind of bliss so to me being loved like that at all is a gift. Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all? A hard truth, but a truth. Love your writing!

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Katybeth Jensen March 24, 2010 at 8:02 pm

Thank you Becky. I am glad you found us! Sounds like we might have a lot in common. But Becky…really Roswell? You did not miss much!

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writerwoman61 August 27, 2010 at 8:55 am

Hi Katybeth:

I am loving your blog…wondering if it’s okay to add you to my Blogroll? Thanks!

Wendy

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Katybeth Jensen January 31, 2011 at 9:57 pm

Sure and I will add you to mine and we will blog happily ever after together…or something along those lines!

Nice to meet you Wendy.

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Isabel Liss February 5, 2011 at 10:15 am

LOVE! And yes, though I knew most of that, I didn’t realize that Erma Bombeck is one of your inspirations — but I might have made that connection on my own if I’d thought to! imo you’ve accomplished that goal! and btw, have always really enjoyed Erma (and you!)

Also loved ‘I don’t parent for an audience’ — that one’s going to be a guide for me today. . .;)

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Katybeth Jensen February 9, 2011 at 1:47 pm

Thanks for being a part of My Odd Family, Isabel! You fit is so nicely :-D !

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Teresa Marie February 5, 2011 at 11:34 am

I love reading your blog. Keep on keepin the light on! xo

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Katybeth Jensen February 9, 2011 at 1:48 pm

The light will always be on for you and a bag of Cheetos at the ready!

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Kathy Jernigan February 27, 2011 at 6:46 pm

You mentioned 2 more dogs. What kind of dogs are they? Never heard you mention them before. Just curious. So you are a dog lover for real. I guess if I was going to leave my pets with someone, it would be with someone that is proving she loves dogs. 8)

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Farah April 1, 2011 at 10:08 am

I love you blog!!! It’s hilarious and reminds me of my family too :) I got here through Sendie-Lou, isn’t she a wonder…and isn’t that so amazing. So very glad you do blog, please don’t ever stop!
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Mary Lee April 13, 2011 at 9:06 pm

Holy smoke, I hadn’t seen this before. Pretty sure I would have remembered nekkid wrasslar and cake in the tub.
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Tanya June 5, 2011 at 3:50 pm

I’m so sorry about your husband. My heart goes out to you. There is something about you that is special i get from reading your blog…you are a strong woman with a great sense of humor and wisdom. I admire that. God bless you!
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Emma Tiebens June 28, 2011 at 8:47 pm

Hello Katybeth!

Wow! I am so glad you stopped by and said hello on my blog, which prompted me to find out more about you and Wow! What a cornucopia of incredible “Odds and Ends” right here! I resonate with so many things about you (other than being pet spoiler as I don’t have any pets anymore but when we had our calico cat Teeder, yes, I too was a spoiler!)

Your story about Joe, moved me to tears as I can only imagine how it must have been… I too have one child – a miracle boy after losing 3 pregnancies. Looking at your photo with Cole just makes me smile… it’s so full of LOVE and mutual admiration…

No we don’t blow up Twinkies around here but my son certainly thinks I’m a “cool Mom”, as we do so many things together…

What a gift to know you Katybeth! I look forward to your “El Morno” posts… will follow you on FB if I am not following you yet…

Thank you for sharing from your heart… Much appreciated!

Blessings,

Emma

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Ixy September 28, 2011 at 6:57 pm

Thank you so much for the comment you left on my blog. It was helpful to hear from someone else who has lost a loved one – although I can’t imagine losing my husband. It seems like my grief multiplied by a million, not that losses can really be compared. Some days I think I’m all better, and then I stumble on a trigger and I see I’m still grieving. Day by day I guess.
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DebbieJ January 22, 2012 at 9:15 pm

KatyBeth, I have dropped into your blog before, but just read the “about”. I love your wit! I too have a “Rascal”. His fave chew toy is deer antlers. I even tripped on your site! Crazy! Rascal usually gets his from my Daddy, the family hunter! A friend just said her vet told her not to give her pup antlers, but rawhides are okay? what the heck? maybe she should find a new vet! Keep writing! Glad Diane S turned me onto your blog :)
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